Online Dating Tips for Men
Getting the Girl Online: The Rules of the Game
- If you like a girl let her know. She is not a mind reader.
- Message her online, flirt with her online or add her to your hot list online.
- Once you do start talking to a girl you like, don’t start stalking her on Facebook or MySpace.
- Don’t ignore her because you think girls like a bad boy. Most women just want a nice genuine guy.
- Once you’ve been talking for a while online, ask her out sooner rather than later because remember guys.... she will be speaking to other guys.
Ok so you’ve been online and found TheOneThatYouWant, well for this date at least! Here are some top tips about dating.........
Golden Dating Rules for Men:
- Look your best. Get some decent clothes and shoes. Women always look at your shoes. If you can't take care of yourself, how are you going to take care of her?
- Sort out your hygiene and styling. Go down to the barbers, get your hair styled if possible. If you don't have much hair, still get down to the barbers, maybe get your head shaved.
- Women want a man who has some ambition in life. Any job is better than none, but knuckle down and sort out some direction in your life. Know what you are about work wise and have some idea of your future plans because women will ask questions about your prospects. Even if they pretend it isn't important, it is, trust me on this. It's the first thing they will look for.
- Do not talk about being in the pub 5 nights a week with the lads. This will never win any woman over. If you spend all your time boozing with the boys, it's time to take a step back and pick up some more productive habits.
- Keep your boy hobbies in check. If you love your sports and enjoy watching the football with your mates, fine. If sport is a religion and you have your favorite player’s number tattooed on your back, you may have a problem. And if you spend 8 hours a day online playing with wizards and warlocks, try and cut down or quit! It's a complete turn off!
- Never expect sex on a first date. If all you are after is sex visit a different type of online dating site.
- Brush up on manners, courtesy and chivalry. A woman likes being treated with respect.
- Never ever check out other women in her company!
- Never talk about all the other hot women you’ve dated/dating, it’s rude; and doesn’t make a woman feel good.
- Never make her feel like she is competing with a dozen other women, women like to feel special; not like they are in a long line of women.
- Start listening and stop talking. Keep your date interested but don't turn into a one-man show. She will bore of you quickly because she wants to talk about herself too. Listen to things she tells you about her and remember them. Women love to chat so you need to learn to listen to her. Remembering things she told you will impress her even more.
- Remember guys, the secret to dating women is to make them feel special and wanted; don’t act like a player or the next Hugh Hefner, it's not cool. Remember, if you like them, tell them, and treat them well.
The most successful guys at online dating are the ones who are caring, loving and respectful.
