Online Dating Advice for Women: (For women’s eyes only, men stop reading immediately! We don’t want you knowing our Secrets.)
Getting the guys online: The rules of the game
•Always let them come to you. Never chase them online (it’s a complete turn off no matter what you look like.)
•Post the best and hottest photo's you can find and more than one preferably, but make sure it is an accurate photo. Guys will immediately compare your real self to your picture.
•Let yourself be chased, guys are naturally competitive so let them be men. Men, despite what they say, enjoy 'The thrill of the chase.'
•Always reply to emails at least 3 hours after receiving it, never instantly. Don't play games. Just let them know you are not desperate.
•Always date safely and protect yourself, never go to a guy’s house for the first date.
•If you don't want to date married or attached men, spell it out in your profile.
•Don't even think about misrepresenting your size or description. They will find out. I refer back to the point about being honest in your photo.
•Come across as cool but approachable for the best results. Don't try to hard to convince a guy your not desperate, this can back fire!
Golden Dating Rules
•This goes without saying, but look great always. Now I don’t mean go mad and pile on the slap but do make some effort. Men are visual creatures and he will notice. More to the point he will think you have made no effort.
•Never reveal information you don't have to. For instance don’t talk about your ex’s or tell him that this time next year you hope to be married. A mysterious woman drives men wild, and these things MAY put him of.
•Keep dates brief, but your men interested. Less is always more.
•If he offers, let your man pay. If he is interested, he is interested enough to ensure you eat well and get home safely in a cab. Having said this, don't take advantage, do offer to put your hand in your pocket, selfishness is a very unattractive thing. Never offering to pay or go halves will be soon noticed by a man.
•Always keep a guy waiting and never turn up early. It is a lady's prerogative. Strike a balance, he will expect you to be a little late, so stick with this. Anything more is just rudeness.
•Now I’ve mentioned this once but I’ll say it again. Never ever talk about previous boyfriends, particularly their prowess in the bedroom. Your ex-boyfriends are your business only.
•Never assume anything about your date until you choose to get to know him better. You cannot always tell by looking.
•Never ever come across as too available or too desperate. He will run a mile.
•If you want a child, don't mention it on the first few dates.
•Never ever criticize his mother unless you want to remain single.
•Do not psychoanalyze a man, I don't care if you have a degree in psychology, don't do it. It's rude and inappropriate. Find things out naturally, not by force. It's a real turn off.
Please Girls, remember that you are a sexy, hot woman and the world is your oyster, and there are plenty of hot single guys that would love to date you. Always stay safe, never risk yourself and make sure you use a safe online dating website.
