Dating is a ritual and before most dates it is normal to be nervous. This is often because of ‘fear of the unknown. We meet new people all the time, but with 'dating' there is a certain level of pressure and uncertainty that meeting people in every day life doesn’t bring. One way to ease the pressure during dating or prior to going on a date is to call your date up. This allows you to understand their social and emotional behavior better and form a more grounded relationship,hearing a voice is important and something you cannot gauge just by email. If your online dating is going well and you are successfully arranging dates, it is safe to assume at this point you have exchanged numbers, so a quick call a few days before also maybe on the day to make sure everything is still O.K. If you wanted to a bit of quirkiness to it, call your date if you are first to arrive, ask them what they would like from the bar! Of course your expectations are more likely to be met if you chat over the phone, as it is quite easy to build up an image in your mind of what your date will sound like as well as look like. Too many surprises while dating can sometimes be a distraction. Dating should be a fun and enjoyable experience, so ensure that your evening goes without a glitch.
Good luck Love TheOneThatYouWant x
